There is a young golfer - Korean-born, New Zealand-based - who has stunned the world with her talent. Lydia Ko is still only 16, but already she has won a number of tournaments as an amateur, and recently received special dispensation to turn professional: two years younger than the normal age. She stands on the brink of an amazing career, no doubt filled with many accolades and a secure financial future. Lydia's skill is undoubted, as is her single-minded focus. One would normally wish her all the success due her skill and effort.
Yet there is a sour taste in my mouth. For as she stands on the brink of sporting greatness, Lydia has chosen to part with the coach who has worked with her since she was five years old; a coach who has sacrificed countless hours of his time; pouring all his own skill and knowledge to raise this young woman to this place where now she stands. He now also stands ready to reap the reward for his labours: at last she can really repay him for all he has done for her.
And what is his reward? Within weeks of turning professional, Lydia has now moved to the United States (perfectly understandable), signed a major management contract (again, perfectly understandable); and sacked him as her coach. Apparently she feels the distance will mean he can be of no value for her. And it would now seem the relationship was one-sided: she only sought to take, never to give.
There are three components to greatness: gifting; focus; character. Lydia has the first two in spades. But for me on the first hurdle she has failed the third: her choice has shown she has much to learn before greatness can be trusted in her hands.
As for Guy Wilson, her coach; he has been loyal, gracious, and humble in his response to her decision.
Greatness: of the two, it is clear for me where it resides. In Guy Wilson, a man of honour and loyalty.
Yes. Well said. Talent alone is not greatness
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